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Old School

At the Study Day on Diversity

we’ve done the beanbag stuff.

I should embrace the person next to me -

simple tolerance just isn’t enough.

 

We’ll talk in confidence and show respect,

let one another speak

without butting in – then I interject

to ask what time we’re breaking off to eat

 

from the salad bowl and the stewing pot -

different, yet the same.

Let my beer be cold and my curry hot;

I’ll have samosas while the steel bands play.

 

We compose a list of those around us  

and label them oppressed:

veggies, smokers and benefit scroungers -

the plaster cast leave bullet holes undressed.

 

I think of Jews in Hitler’s Germany;

the martyr on the cross.

All-inclusive oppression disturbs me;

I say our sense of perspective is lost

 

and ask whether choice and diversity  

might ever be thought bad?

When her face betrays her uncertainty

I know better why they wear a hijab.

◄ I turned right at the end

Unconditional Regard ►

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Ray Miller

Thu 26th Jul 2012 14:16

Well, yes, though there's perversity in insularity, too, and I'm not arguing for that. I'm quite prepared to be tolerant of other people - the father-in-law comes over every Sunday, reads the Daily Mail, pisses all over the bathroom floor and eats meat though we're vegetarians. So I can be tolerant of diversity. I just don't want to embrace it.

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M.C. Newberry

Tue 24th Jul 2012 15:48

There's perversity in diversity
With the English suspiciously quiet;
Politicians push it down our throats,
Hard sell - but will we buy it?
Intent on imposing with impunity...
But since when did "diverse" equal "unity"?
:-)

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Ray Miller

Tue 24th Jul 2012 12:15

Thanks, Isobel. Such courses do indeed exist. And it seems that tolerance isn't enough, one must embrace diversity. That's the starting position nowadays.
You've possibly misunderstood the 4th verse. We were asked to come up with categories of people who feel themselves discriminated against. There was a long list, all of whom were then described as "oppressed". I objected on the grounds that oppressed was far too strong a word for most of the groups named.But apparently, if someone feels they are oppressed, then they are.I'm feeling oppressed by diversity just now.
That said, it's not a good poem, doesn't make its points clearly enough and the metre is poor in places.

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Isobel

Tue 24th Jul 2012 08:25

Not an obvious one Ray - I've had to read this several times to get out of it what I think you are saying :) It's hard for me to put into words what I like about it though - which is probably why no-one else has commented yet.

I like your social observation - the alienation of the person on the course. The 'diversity' course sounds like a naff one, by the way. Do such courses exist? Indeed, what is wrong with simple tolerance and mutual acceptance?

I like the dry humour of you interjecting to ask about eating. It betrays the lip service you are paying to it all. Also the way you sum up all the other course members - that's what we all do on courses when we are bored :)

The ending made me smile - we can throw bean bags to each other till the cows come home - it doesn't mean to say that we will ever have a total meeting of minds with people of different culture. As you've already said, the unappreciated key to it all is mutual tolerance and respect. If we all had that we wouldn't have to waste money on courses like this.

That's what I got out of it anyway. Unless you are poking fun at 'Old School' people and are totally up for diversity courses...

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