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Saying goodbye

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What church-bells toll to mourn their loss?

What calls to prayer by the muezzin in their memory?

For these young men who kill themselves?

— Only the monstrous silence of the media

    Only the national blood-loss of young lives.

What mockeries now for them from politicians who do not care;

Only the voice of the mothers whose sons are no longer there —

Only black and white boys’ Facebook pages, full of silent rages

Recall the lives of those who were repelled by the living struggling nightmare of modern masculinity

A pointless  modernity. No candles shine for the loss of these young lives.

Look into their eyes as they pass your way

You will see the holy glimmer of goodbyes

As sure as suicide in the trenches did a hundred years ago.

And we must learn to value our rough young men

With tender hearts: no chances offered, no respect

 

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John Marks

Mon 20th Dec 2021 09:54

Thank YOU Keith. you are exactly right, the topic of male suicide is verboten (forbidden) in the increasingly feminised liberal media. And, no, I'm definitely not a misogynist . I love women and have four daughters but worry more about my son and grandsons.

Data published by the Office for National Statistics on 1 September showed that in 2019 the suicide rate among men and boys was 16.9 deaths per 100,000. Doesn't sound too bad until you realise over 4300 men and boys die from their own hand, that's over 11 every day, including Christmas day. ...the suicide rate among women and girls was 5.3 deaths per 100 000 in 2019,

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keith jeffries

Mon 20th Dec 2021 08:22

John,
you have touched on some raw material here which is not being addressed by anyone because it is so difficult to grasp. The root lies in masculinity which is pushed into the background by the world as irrelevant. Young men possess a need to express this aspect of their identity yet cannot find a means to do so. They resort to the result of such repressed feelings through violence. Historically this was found in war. Those who responded to the call to fight. This no longer exists. Where do they turn? A dilemma indeed. In the midst of identity politics about who we are masculinity is ignored as something too difficult to deal with. In desperation they turn to the grave. Is there a way forward, a way out for them?
You have addressed an issue here which cries out.
Thank you for this
Keith

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