Refinement in destruction
  the world in ashes
Comfort in darkness
  the past hidden
Warmth in mortality
  the future precious

There is an eligance in the demise of who you once were
  a satisfaction in the ascension of the person that now walks in your shoes

The death of expectations
The birth of hope

Do not imprission yourself behind stubborness, embrace your fear
Release your heart to find who you are, not who the world believes you should be

Forgiveness of youthful ignorance
Acceptance of cultivated comprehension

Allow yourself to see the beauty in your own resiliance and growth.