To dive into the depths or be in the shallows of relationships..
To dwell in the past or to enjoy future's courtships..
To shine,dazzling in the limelight or be comforted in the lingering shadows..
To give in to the battle of egos or be steadfast as the pride billows..
To live in the lies of self hood or be in sync with one's true reflection..
To hold fast to the patterns before or be abandoned from the reminiscent connections..
To gently sway to the music of romance or be wild in the dance of ecstacy..
This dilemma of ..to be or not to be..
is in  Itself a tantalizing vantage as u may rightly agree