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Domestic abuse

"My life was in danger every single day,

Oh my God ,why did I stay!"

Domestic abuse is a cowardly affair,

"Unable to live safely in my home is unfair."

 

Domestic abuse has only one aim,

Using fear ,guilt,intimidation and blame.

To gain control,wear you down and mistreat,

This crime hidden at home we must defeat.

 

The scars of domestic violence run deep,

The trauma you don't want to keep.

The fear of danger you need to eradicate,

"The man I did love,his actions I now hate!"

 

Don't be trapped by confusion,guilt and self blame,

For being battered,and mistreated you are not to blame.

You deserve a safe and happy life,

To be violated is not the role of a wife.

 

"My life was in danger every single day,

The man whom I loved used violence to get his way."

Abuse creates invisible chains,

Wrapped ruthlessly round a woman's pains.

 

Life for her was like walking on egg shells,

Falling down the cracks as his anger dispells.

Living in a world of every day terror,

Frightened of inciting violence, by making an error.

 

"Every day I was told I was worthless,it damaged my esteem,

Dependent on my partner,leaving him,was an impossible dream.

I felt as if I was trapped in a bog,

He even threatened to kill my dog."

 

The abused need priority housing when in need,

To avoid the trauma of a deathly bleed.

Raise the expectations of the victims from the very start,

Giving them a safe path to confidently depart.

 

Unleash them from a position of dependence,

Establishing a place for them to gain independence.

Priorotise the victims not the perpetrators,

Protect the children, away from the dictators.

 

Locks on houses should be changed,

Electric tags on the perpertrator prearranged.

She made sacrifices for her soul mate,

Being bruised and battered must not be her fate!!!

 

 

 

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Hugh

Sun 6th Oct 2019 10:54

Domestic abuse is rampaging through our land,
It's definitely getting way out of hand.
Let's embed a message in every single school,
That cruelty to you partner is not very cool.
In rugby and football where rivalry is at a high,
To end abuse should be our goal and hopefully score a try.


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Hugh

Fri 4th Oct 2019 18:34

Yes watched it on parliament live.I was in the middle of doing research for my poem and by coincidence it was on.It was a moving experience listening to her.I have sent the poem by email to her and read it out to members of her staff on the phone.The things we poets do !

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Ruth O'Reilly

Fri 4th Oct 2019 18:13

Rosie Duffield made a very moving speech in parliament 2days ago. It was about her experience of domestic abuse topped with embarrassment as it was going on at the same time as being an MP. Did you see that Hugh?

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M.C. Newberry

Fri 4th Oct 2019 17:13

Topical and worth reading and commenting.
During decades of public service here in London, I attended my
share of what is now termed "domestic abuse". The causes were
varied and the solutions rarely easy or readily accepted from within
the marriage (I assume this basically refers to marital situations) -
and logical advice was often acknowledged with an outward show of gratitude - but with no follow-up action that might have alleviated the problem. The sad proof of "hope springs eternal"!.
Bullies and aggressors exist in both sexes, their behaviour
rarely examined other that to allocate blame. Don't marriage
counsellors (a fact of life in years past) exist these days? Victims
can also be instigators and treading carefully when dealing with
this volatile scenario is of paramount importance or else we are in
danger of falling back on our own prejudices to form judgements
that merely scratch at the whole often unpalatable truth.
Divorce courts spend hours trying to determine such situations
when they get that far - which says much for the multi--faceted
web of deceit and self-deceit that can be weaved between the "warring factions".
Physical and verbal aggression are
open to proper remedial action but so
often these courses are not adopted and
the results are often all too evident - too
late!

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