My mommy would absolutely know the right thing to say to me ..too us right now..as we continue to grieve for our brothers and forever mourn the loss of mother...we survived it ...barely and we hang on and we move on...but we never really get over it...we never really feel complete peace ..or just ..complete ..because a huge part of our heart is gone and it will never return...no matter how many years pass..the pain never lessens ..we just learn to live with it ...like someone who has lost their sight we adapt to the blindness and we teach ourselves to stumble around the world in darkness...arms reached out in front groping at anything...a fleeting moment of relief...the elusive acceptance. .but as the years moves on the yearning gets deeper and we always left wondering...would things be different... would our mother be proud and have wonderful relationships with us...born of faith in us and unconditional love always..miss u ma...till we meet again